thanks for making me this hot tea bro. Why did the steam make the shape of a skull and crossbones when you stirred it lol
“Nonbinary” is an experience as much as it is an identity. There are as many types of nonbinary-ness as there are nonbinary people. You cannot define your sexuality on nonbinary people because we are not a third gender, we are not a social class, we are not distinguishable from people with “binary identities”. You are not doing anyone any favors by trying to build conversations that center nonbinary identities as the nexus for material analysis because there is no uniform nonbinary experience. Please, for the love of everything, just stop trying already. It’s not helpful or fruitful in any way!
i’m gonna say it
having teenages and ppl in their early 20s with little to no experience with irl sex, dating and LGBT communities lead online discourse on what is sexual orientation and what labels mean has done incredible damage to our community
so much of the shit that has come out of twitter and tumblr in the recent years literally sounds like a homophobic fever dream but if you dare point that out you will be sent death threats by a swarm of teenagers who have never talked to a lesbian offline